The birthday wishes I have received from family and friends warmed my heart as another birthday has come and gone. I considered it a gift. I reflected on the other gifts I have received throughout the years. No doubt. One gift has been "
I always appreciated my Mom when she asked, “What kind of cake I would you like for your birthday?” I always gave the same response: “A pecan pie.” How did she fit the candles in the pie? If my Mom was not able to go to Maloney’s grocery or walk to the IGA, she made a pineapple upside down or German chocolate cake because the mixes and other ingredients were in our small pantry. (My mom did not drive until I was in maybe the fifth or sixth grade, and the stores were closed on Sundays so I the thought of cake or even a pecan pie was a gift.) I was happy with the pie or cake because I understood we did not have a lot of money but I had a celebration and felt special. When I had a birthday slumber party with my friends, there was a store bought cake. I secretly missed the pecan pie, pineapple upside down cake or a bite of German chocolate cake. I stopped at a neighborhood establishment, Dilettante's on my birthday a few days ago, and its doors closed last night after serving the neighborhood for years. I realized it the closing was wasn’t really about me, nor was my birthday. Another gift is about all of you who have created my memories, and I will continue to write the chapters of my life as I walk with those who are in personal and professional relationships with me. Let’s make more memories together. Let's eat cake. Let's see the gifts in our lives.
I always appreciated my Mom when she asked, “What kind of cake I would you like for your birthday?” I always gave the same response: “A pecan pie.” How did she fit the candles in the pie? If my Mom was not able to go to Maloney’s grocery or walk to the IGA, she made a pineapple upside down or German chocolate cake because the mixes and other ingredients were in our small pantry. (My mom did not drive until I was in maybe the fifth or sixth grade, and the stores were closed on Sundays so I the thought of cake or even a pecan pie was a gift.) I was happy with the pie or cake because I understood we did not have a lot of money but I had a celebration and felt special. When I had a birthday slumber party with my friends, there was a store bought cake. I secretly missed the pecan pie, pineapple upside down cake or a bite of German chocolate cake. I stopped at a neighborhood establishment, Dilettante's on my birthday a few days ago, and its doors closed last night after serving the neighborhood for years. I realized it the closing was wasn’t really about me, nor was my birthday. Another gift is about all of you who have created my memories, and I will continue to write the chapters of my life as I walk with those who are in personal and professional relationships with me. Let’s make more memories together. Let's eat cake. Let's see the gifts in our lives.